Ok so i've noticed quite a few people on this site are actually pretty smart, so maybe you can help me with this problem I have.
About three months ago I found my current girlfriend, she had just graduated from school and was gonna start working. She's 19 and im 21, anyway.. As I have been graduated for 2 years I've been thinking more and more lately that I should go back to school in early 2008 so I can get a real job education at the university. Getting into the computer science here were I live is ridiculously easy, in other towns such as Linköping & Gothenburg you need extra maths to be able to get in, among other things. They dont demand that here, and since I dont have it.. I'll have an easier time getting in here in Örebro than.. lets say Gothenburg. I also have a job here in Örebro wich I can work extra at while studdying.
The thing is, my girl applied to Gothenburg university for this spring just to see how it would go.. and guess what? She got in. The funny thing with her program is that its not available anywhere else in the country. And she likely wouldnt get in a second time if she applied.. so she has accepted the spot and is gonna start there this winter.
Its been 4 years since I had a really serious relationship, and believe me this one is. So im thinking about the following: Should I give up all my friends, work and easy future here and move down there this spring? For me to be able to do this I would have to take extra math classes this winter and pass them, and I also would have to get in to the program after x-mas. And its not all, since I still live at home I would have to wait with moving out until im absolutley sure im accepted in Gothenburg, in early January.. compared to early October if I do my studdies in Örebro.
So, I do realise this is a huge post, but still.. Some advice would be nice. I do realise we've only been together for 3 months, and its nothing.. would i potentially kill our relationship if I decide not to move there? Oh well, I guess I have to wait and see. Any advice?
Edit: Oh yeah, Gothenburg is like.. 350km away from were I live, about 2.5h with train.